In 2006 more women under the age of 30 who had babies did so out of wedlock. I won’t delve into the moral arguments here, rather I’ll focus on the practical. First and foremost, I can’t imagine being a single parent at any age. Being a parent is exhausting and when you don’t have someone to share the burden it is doubly so. Second, as a single parent you’re fighting an uphill battle financially. Even if you get child support you still have to find a way to make ends meet and that means either working, living on public support, living on family support or some combination of the three. Third, you’re not going to have a lot of spare time to spend with your kids. Where do they turn for the attention that you can’t give them?
This trend is troubling because in the end it will impact all of us. As the person who conducted the study cited in the article said:
The inequality of incomes in these families is unbelievable,” said
Sum, who has written numerous books and articles about the job market,
young families and poverty. “Forty percent are poor, or near-poor. A
large fraction is dependent on public assistance. Unless the mother is
very well-educated and has a bachelor’s degree or above, there’s a huge
fiscal cost to the rest of us.
Hat tip to Ed Cone for the link to the article.