Tax Free Frustration

Once again we’ve reached the infamous tax-free weekend where we’re encouraged to buy all our kids’ school related stuff without having to pay sales tax.  One problem: we don’t have specific supply lists for the kids.  Following is a rant, and if it sounds familiar it’s because I ranted on the same topic this time last year.

This year we have one kid in middle school and two in high school.  I was able to find a generic supply list on the middle school’s website, but even then I had to find it by digging through their site and locating it in the "Document Manager" folder about four levels down from the home page.  Maybe they sent the list home with the kids at the end of school, but even so wouldn’t it be safe to assume that many folks lost it and that it would be a good idea to have a link to it from the school’s home page?  Also, the last item on the list says "Individual team lists with team specific supplies will be available at Open House."  Going to their handy-dandy calendar I find that the Open House is August 19, over two weeks after the tax-free weekend.

As for our two older kids there’s a nice note on the high school’s home page that students in Algebra I, Algebra II, Advanced Functions and Modeling, Pre-Calculus, Calculus should purchase one of three calculators for use in those classes.  Unfortunately there’s no mention of which calculator geometry students should purchase.  We learned the hard way last year with our oldest that you want to make sure you get the right calculator for geometry.  We’re hoping that his sister can use his from last year, but since it’s a different teacher we don’t know if she’ll recommend the same calculator or not. And of course I couldn’t find anything resembling a supply list on the school’s site.

I’m willing to bet that the teachers and administrators blame the state for having the tax holiday too early, and maybe they’re right. Heck, last year the Winston-Salem Journal editorial page went so far as to blame the tourism and real estate lobbies for getting the state general assembly to require schools to open later so that families could vacation at the beaches through August. (You can read the excerpt on my post from last year; unfortunately I think the original editorial is behind the paper’s firewall). But until the General Assembly acts and pushes the tax holiday further back couldn’t the teachers and administrators throw us a bone and have their lists ready and posted on the website by the end of July?  They don’t even have to make photocopies, just post them on the website! 

When you think about the money involved you begin to realize that this stuff adds up.  Specialized calculators can run you $100 or more, and by the time you throw in three ring binders, folders, presentation materials, special books, etc. you’re talking at least a couple of hundred bucks per kid.  Multiply that amount by 7% and you’re looking at real money.

Look at it this way: If we don’t include things for which we don’t need a list, like clothes, shoes, backpacks, etc. then maybe we’re talking about saving $15-20 in taxes on the items from the teachers’ specific lists.  Heck, let’s be even more conservative and say it’s $10.  Well at my kids’ high school there are roughly 2,000 students so at $10 per student that’s $20,000 in savings.  Isn’t getting a supply list online by the end of July worth $20,000?  Now take that $10 across all 51,000 students in the Winston-Salem/Forsyth County system and you’re talking half a million dollars that parents could be saving on the tax-free weekend.

Think about what $500,000 can get you.  You could fill a Chevy Suburban’s gas tank 1 1/2 times, or give the superintendent a 2% cost of living raise (I know, cheap shot).  Seriously though, this is crazy.  If you’re going to have a tax-free weekend specifically for school purchases then doesn’t it make sense to let parents know what they need to purchase?  Until the state changes the date for the weekend wouldn’t it make sense for the school board to require that schools/teachers have their lists up by the week before the tax holiday?

As I wrote last year there might be a good reason for this.  Teachers may not come back to work in time to get their lists together, but how much does it change from year to year?  Why not have it up on the school’s website before they go on summer break?  Or as my wife pointed out last year, why did we have those lists on time two years ago but not last year or this year?  Maybe the teachers need an incentive.  Well here’s one: we parents might not be so pissy when they hit us up for $3 for this party, and $5 for that achievement prize, and $2 for those extra hand outs to augment their lesson plan if they would help us out on these supply lists.    

Plan Now to See the Leaves of Autumn

Ever driven the Blue Ridge Parkway when the leaves are changing color in the autumn?  It’s just awesome.  Ever wanted to spend a quiet weekend up there, absolutely away from it all and relax for a few days as you roam the area and enjoy the scenery?  If so, I have the place for you.

Sadie’s Place is a small country house that Debbie and Steve Erickson have converted into a weekend getaway.  You can literally be on the Parkway in less than a minute from their location, but it also features a small creek running just yards away from the front door and a fantastic porch for sitting and sipping hot cider or your adult beverage of choice.  (Full disclosure: We’re relatives, but I’d write this anyway if we weren’t).

From Sadie’s Place you can also be in Laurel Springs in just minutes and you can be in West Jefferson or Sparta in a little under 1/2 hour.  Laurel Springs is home to Thistle Meadow Winery and West Jefferson is home to all kinds of cool establishments. 

Debbie and Steve will be happy to take care of you, so give yourself a break this fall and spend a few days up in North Carolina’s beautiful Blue Ridge area.  I’m sure Debbie and Steve would love to make you feel right at home.

Sadie’s Place

For rental information contact:

Steve or Debbie Erickson
(919) 545-9204 or (336) 416-6080

Email: mooonbaby AT yahoo.com

   

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Google Maps Street View Hits Lewisville

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For the longest time Google Maps’ "Street View" hadn’t been available in this area and then today I logged on and found it live…here on my own corner!  That pic to the left (click to enlarge) is a screenshot of my monitor with the street view for my address shown.  Kind of wild that it’s available here, and it’s cool being able to notice that the pictures had to be taken at least a few weeks ago due to some items that appear in my yard that are no longer there and to notice that the pictures had to be taken in the morning because of the angle of the sunlight and the shadows.

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Actually street view is now available in a large swath of the Winston-Salem/Greensboro metro areas.  The area of the map to the left that is in blue is where the street view is available.  I’d love to know how Google does this…oh wait, here’s an article in Popular Mechanics with pictures of the camera they use at $45,000 a pop!  Way cool.

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OfficeMax’s Penny Campaign

OfficeMax has an interesting ad campaign online.  It’s a video  (see below) showing a guy paying for a steak dinner with pennies.  The proprietors of the restaurant aren’t too happy with him and argue with him about why they should accept pennies.  The video may or may not be staged, but it doesn’t matter because it’s funny.  At the end of the video OfficeMax has a little "Power of the Penny" graphic promoting all the back-to-school items you can buy for a penny and the end screen has the www.officemax.com/penny URL.

I like this because although the video isn’t specifically about back to school items it’s a humorous look at the ongoing debate about the value of pennies.  Lots of people think the penny should go the way of all flesh, but OfficeMax has found a way to use the debate to their advantage.

BTW, I found the video on video humor site Glumbert.com.

Cross-posted on LowderEnterprises.com

Abundance

In my previous post I mentioned that the kids were away at mission camp last week.  What I didn’t mention is that my Aunt Debbie spent five years of her life building the mission camp before turning it over to others and moving to Blue Heron Farm with her husband Steve.  Debbie took up blogging a while back and in her latest post she shared with us how she and the others on the farm are working to identify their community’s core values.  My favorite part of the post was how she defined "abundance":

Unpacking abundance: I’ll just start by saying that abundance was my
bottom-line value contribution. so I really wanted to see it on our
list of three values. Within our small group, and later in large group
discussion we referred to abundance as a lofty ideal and a fluffy word.
I agree! It’s a leap of faith to believe there is enough. I’ve spent
the last five years leading mission camps where we faced head-on the
overwhelming needs of Appalachian mountain communities. We did this
with limited funds, tools, and mostly unskilled, teenage laborers.
Miracles were a daily occurrence. I still believe, more than ever, that
there is enough. And I also believe we need a lot more practice around
sharing and simplicity so the haves and the have-nots are standing
closer together. My life revolves around this very practice.

This really struck a chord with me.  I don’t know if it’s a form of middle aged crisis or what, but I’ve been feeling a growing urge to do something…more.  Don’t get me wrong, I feel very fulfilled as a husband and father and I enjoy being in the part of my career where I don’t feel like a paper-pusher any more, but, and it’s a big but,  I wonder if perhaps I could be doing more. 

When I left for college I thought I’d be a teacher, but then I decided against it.  Then I thought, "Well, I’ll make my fortune and then teach as a second career.  That way I won’t be beholden to anyone and can teach on my own terms."  Can we say naive?  Now I find myself saying, "When the kids are grown I’ll have more time to devote to helping others."  Ah, but life has a funny way of replacing one obligation excuse with another and I’m sure when the kids are gone it’ll be something like "Well, when the house is totally fixed up I’ll…"

As I’m having this conversation with myself I remember something my stepfather, John Garrity, said to me when I was a soon-to-be Daddy who wasn’t so sure he was ready.  John said, "If everyone waited until they thought they were ready to have children then there wouldn’t be many kids around."  I think the same is true of doing more.  If everyone waited until their own lives were perfect then there wouldn’t be things like Mission Camp.

I’m not sure where I’m going to go with this.  I just know that I’m increasingly feeling the need to make a significant change.  I’ve talked to Celeste about this and I’m afraid I’ve scared her to death.  She probably thinks I’m going to quit my job and join the Peace Corps, but that’s not the kind of thing I’m talking about.  Rather I’m looking at this the way some nutritionists look at losing weight: it’s not about going on a radical diet, but about making a lifestyle change.  What can I do on a daily basis to do more?  As Debbie put it, how can I stand closer?

I’m asking these questions because, as I said, I feel very fulfilled.  I feel like I have received many gifts of abundance including good health, a loving family, security (both emotional and financial) and community.  We’re by no means wealthy, but too often abundance is equated with wealth and that’s just not so.  I won’t retire any time in my middle age, but at the same time I don’t have to worry about where the next meal is coming from, or whether or not I’ll have a roof over my head tomorrow.  Compared to many that’s a great deal of abundance and for that reason I think it’s important to stand shoulder to shoulder with those who need more.

How to do this?  Right now I don’t have the answer, but I’m working on it.

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Summer’s Final Stretch

This week begins what I like to think of as Summer’s Final Stretch, the reason being that the kids’ swim season officially ended this past Saturday so they now have no official reason to rise at any particular time.  Until then they were required to be at swim practice every morning at 9:45 so they had to rise by 9:00 at the latest.  Now, they’re sleeping ’til noon, but unfortunately for them this state of affairs will only last two weeks.

Quick aside: I miss the days I could sleep that late.  Bladders over 40 years old don’t allow it.

The kids were with our church’s youth group at mission camp at Laurel Ridge all last week so they missed the week of practices leading up to the league championships which were held Friday night and Saturday morning.  Instead they spent their week painting buildings, manning weed whackers, laying flagstones and doing various and sundry other good deeds.  They returned on Friday afternoon at 1:00 and I treated them to lunch at Cicciones since we didn’t have a whole lot of food in the fridge (more on why later).

After lunch the kids rested up and then we headed over to Clemmons West pool at 4:00 for championship warm ups.  Michael and most of his buddies were alternates in the 15-18 group; we have some real hardcore swimmers at that level so it’s no slight on Michael or his buddies and they’ll get their chances next year.  Erin swam three events and Justin swam five.  Both of them won some ribbons so it was a pretty good night.  After the meet a bunch of us from the team made our way over to Mi Pueblo for a late dinner and we stumbled home about 12:00.

Another quick aside: I should never eat refried beans after 8:00 p.m. Ever.

The younger kids’ (under 10) championship heats are held on Saturday morning and luckily for us none of our kids are in that age group any more so we got to sleep in a little.  That left the end of year party and awards ceremony at the pool on Saturday night.  We got there at 6:00 and I found out that a couple of friends were going to go to the races at Bowman Gray at 7:30 and I got the okay from Celeste to join them.  Sweet reprieve!  Alas, it wasn’t to be.  The awards ran longer than expected and I would have had to leave before our kids’ age groups awards, including championship ribbons, were given out.  I didn’t want to miss it since this is the first year we’ve been able to make the awards banquet and I wanted to see them get theirs. 

So I backed out and didn’t get my chance to experience ladies night at Bowman Gray, which I’ve been informed provides the largest assemblage of tattooed boobs in America, with the possible exception of a Jimmy Swaggart revival. Tragic, I know. Instead, Celeste and I hung out at the pool to help with chaperoning the teenagers who’d been allowed to swim until midnight.  Apparently in years past they’ve had an all-night lock-in which to me is unthinkable punishment for any adult who has to be involved.  Saner heads prevailed this year.

This summer also featured Michael’s first year of football workouts.  Every Monday, Wednesday and Thursday he had morning workouts from 9-12 and they were a beast.  Between swimming and football he’s gotten in the best shape of his life.  This week the coaches are taking vacation and then next week they start regular practices.  Michael will be missing that week (with the coach’s permission) since we’re taking our family vacation, so he’ll have a two week break when all is said and done.  I don’t think he yet realizes that he’s going to be doing some Dad-led workouts so that he doesn’t lose too much ground before he starts practices upon his return.

And of course practices for Erin’s soccer team will begin in earnest when we return (actually they start the week we’re gone) and since I’m also a coach on the team we’ll be pretty much hip deep in soccer related stuff from then until December.  The first tournament is the weekend after we get back so it gets crazy fast.

Thus we’ve reached the swan song for Summer ’08.  Each year the summer seems to pass faster, and each year I feel even more nostalgic for the seemingly never ending summers of my early childhood.  Then I remember that the kids will be back in school soon and the constant requests for chauffeuring services will finally come to an end.  Sweet!

Oh, and as for why we had no food to feed the kids upon their return from camp, let’s just say that Celeste and I didn’t waste our first week ever of having all three kids at camp at the same time.  We dined out every chance we could and we even took the opportunity to hit a wine tasting at Wine Merchants Gourmet on Wednesday night.  This was our first glimpse of the future when the kids will be flying the nest, and while I’m sure we’ll have a terrible time dealing with empty nest syndrome with that time comes I think we’ll also find many ways to enjoy our time as a couple with kids who call us when they’re short on cash.

Buff Runners in Reidsville

Sarah South linked to an interesting 5-K being held in Reidsville tomorrow (July 26, 2008).  It’s called the Take Pride in Your Hide and as you may guess from the title it’s a clothing-optional race.  If you happen to be a purveyor of sports-ready suntan lotion I think you could make a pretty penny if you set up shop there tomorrow morning.

The race is being held on the Bar-S-Ranch.  Here’s a race description from the website:

Bar -S- Ranch, a nudist resort, rests on 400 acres of
    rolling meadows and woodlands. Guests are able to relax and find refuge from
    the pressures of urban life. Our resort adds a new dimension to the clothing
    optional experience by offering a secure and serene environment. We welcome
    the experienced and the uninitiated nudist to enjoy our hospitality.
   

People are curious about nudism. However, the nudist philosophy is
simple: being nude is natural. Runners have found that nude running gives
them a feeling of freedom and exhilaration that cannot be matched in an
other way. Bar -S- Ranch offers this run to the general running community to
give runners an opportunity to enjoy this interesting and different running
experience, "naturally" or clothed.

Timing will be done with Champion Chip Timing technology, by Queen City
Timing Services of Mooresville, NC. Each runner / walker must pick up
his/ her chip, to be worn on your shoe at the Take Pride 5K on race day
morning. Those who do not turn in their chip will be assessed a $35
fee. Please bring a towel to sit upon ( proper etiquette at a nudist
resort).  "Great" T-shirts (first 150 guaranteed). Unique prizes,
awards, food & refreshments, kegs of Budweiser beer and a drawing
for a one year membership to the Bar-S. Runners/Walkers & their
guest may enjoy the Bar-S for the day until 4:00 PM. A nude/non-nude
photo will be taken to commemorate the event & may be purchased for
$10, included with your entry or paid on race day. The race is ran on
the Bar-S trails in a safe & secure environment , no spectators
allowed. Enjoy running/walking "Naturally" or "clothed" on the exciting
5k XC trail through the cool woods.

Oh, this is cute.  The race management company’s name is Butts A’Runnin Race Management. 

They’re also looking for sponsors.

You know there are some thoughts that are running through my head right now, pardon the pun, and some fairly obvious questions too:

  1. Is there a correlation between nude running and sterility for men?  Gravity ain’t kind folks, and the jostling can’t be too good for you.
  2. How about the effects of gravity on the better half of the male/female equation?  I’m assuming that those who are, um, lighter in their northern hemisphere enjoy a natural advantage?
  3. How does one become a nudist photographer?  Or put another way, is one a nudist photographer or a photographer of nudists…or both?
  4. I’m also assuming that it’s not a good idea to borrow someone’s towel if you forget your own.
  5. I know it’s common to give away t-shirts at races but for this one wouldn’t it be more appropriate to give a temporary tattoo instead?  Just saying.

By the way, I have no problem with nudists doing their thing and in some ways I envy their ability to let it all hang out, so to speak.  On the other hand, I’ve never been in the lead in any race I’ve ever run which means I’m always looking at someone’s back(side) and I can’t imagine that’s the best view in a naked trot such as this. 

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