Category Archives: Winston-Salem

Head, Heart, Lungs and Legs

I've spent a good percentage of my life on fields and courts as both a player and a coach.  At best I'm average at both playing or coaching, but I've enjoyed the process immensely and over the years I hope that I've learned much through my observations.  One thing I've learned through all that participation, and something I've tried to share with the kids that I've coached, is that too much attention is paid to the actualy playing of the game and not enough is paid to how to play the game.  My mantra is that the most important contributors to your success in sports are, in this order, the head, heart, lungs and legs.  

Most great competitors are not the most athletic, rather they have a certain level of athletic ability mixed with a superior mind.  They also possess an incredible drive, often referred to by coaches as "heart" that allows them to put forth an incredible amount of effort no matter what obstacles are put in their way.  Lungs and legs simply refer to the fact that the great players almost always train harder than anyone else in the game which means that when everyone else is ready to pass out they're ready to go.  Also, the great ones work on their technical skills long after everyone else has called it quits for the day so when the heat is on during the game they can rely on their skills even when they are completely stressed out.

I thought about all this when I read Dan Collins' most recent post on "My Take on Wake".  He writes about Wake Forest center Chas McFarland's struggles to keep his emotions in check and how McFarland's inability to do so has led to reduced playing time.  In this case it sounds like the heart is actually trumping the brain, and that's never a good thing.  I hope for McFarland's and Wake's sake he gets it together in the near future.  He's obviously worked his butt off and improved physically, but that will be all for naught if he doesn't get his head in order.

Homeschool Nation – North Carolina, Blog by Local Homeschooler

There appears to be a new blog for homeschoolers here in the Triad. Actually, upon further review it looks like it's just new to me.  Anyway, Homeschool Nation – North Carolina has posts about homeschoolers' drivers ed (available for free to homeschoolers in Forsyth County at their local high schools), field trip ideas and a link to a Fox8 feature about the homeschoolers' football team among other things.  Looks like lots of good information for local homeschoolers.

Winston-Salem Artist Profiled in Paper That Claims All the News That’s Fit to Print

Librarchivist Tweeted a link to an article in the New York Times about the hanging of Peter DeGraff here in Winston-Salem over a century ago for the murder of Ellen Smith, the oral tradition that kept the story alive, the song Poor Ellen Smith and the fact that a descendant of DeGraff, Randy Furhes, wrote a variation of the song and is now performing it in venues like Winston-Salem's The Garage.  The Times article mentions the Winston-Salem Journal article about Furches, and also mentions that the day after his performance another descendant who read the Journal article contacted his mother to let him know that she had the family Bible that DeGraff reportedly carried to the gallows and that everyone in the family thought had been lost.

I love the fact that the Bible was found in a home in the "village of Clemmons" which makes Clemmons sound like some quaint little outpost with homes of thatched roofs, and not the mecca of strip malls, McMansions and new hospitals that it has become.  Yes, yes Clemmons is literally the Village of Clemmons, but still.  I hate the fact that the Times doesn't link to the Journal article.  Granted the Journal doesn't link out to anyone either, but still I hate it.  Finally I'm glad to see a local story and artist getting some national exposure.

Update: There's a blog called Nytpicker that, well, nitpicks the New York Times.  They take Dan Barry, the author of the NYT article, to task for using "overheated prose" and point out how he took Kim Underwood's Journal piece and expanded it with said prose.  Unfortunately in the process they disparage Kim's piece as a "boring local piece" and even get his gender wrong. The piece also got the attention of Greensboro's kingpin blogger Ed Cone who also says that Barry apparently read Kim's article.  That's why it's all the more regrettable that the Times' article didn't link to the Journal's article.

The Big Eat, Tuesdays in Winston-Salem

The Downtown Winston-Salem Partnership is sponsoring The Big Eat: Tuesday Nights Downtown an event that features 15 dowtown restaurants offering 50% off of a signature dish every Tuesday night between February 3 and March 31.  A list of participating restaurants and a Google map I threw together is below; more details, including a list of signature dishes, and printable PDF versions of downtown maps for the restaurants and parking are available at the Partnership's website.

  • 6th & Vine: 209 W. Sixth St. – 725-5577
  • Bayberry Bistro: 420 High St. – 397-8302 
  • Celtic Cafe: 924 S. Marshall St. – 703-0641 
  • Chelsee's Coffee Shop & More: 533 N. Trade St. – 703-1503
  • Downtown Thai: 219 W. Fourth St. – 777-1422 
  • Foothills Brewing: 638 W. Fourth St. – 777-3348 
  • Hutch & Harris: 424 W. Fourth St. – 721-1336 
  • Mellow Mushroom: 314 W. Fourth St. – 245-2820 
  • Meridian Restaurant: 411 S. Marshall St. – 722-8889 
  • Noma Urban Bar & Grill: 321 W. Fourth St. – 703-5112 
  • Quiznos Subs: 310 W. Fourth St. – 725-3423
  • Sweet Potatoes… a restaurant: 529 N. Trade St. – 727-4844
  • Wolfie's Frozen Custard: 420 W. Fourth St. – 245-2400
  • WS Prime Steakhouse: 425 N. Cherry St. – 722-5232
  • The Garage: 110 W. Seventh St. – 777-1277
  • Camel City:  401 W. Fourth St. – 734-1797

  

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Free Income Tax Help at Truliant

Truliant is hosting free tax preparation help every Saturday from 9:00 AM to 12 PM starting this Saturday, January 31, through April 11.  From the press release:

The Forsyth Working Families Partnership offers this free tax preparation service through VITA to working families who make $42,000 or less in annual income. VITA started their partnership with local communities to help eligible families collect the Earned Income Tax Credit (EITC). It is estimated that millions of dollars in EITC go unclaimed by eligible working families every year.

Truliant employees are volunteering their time to this program to offer low-income, working families affordable tax return preparation, encourage savings and increase the number of tax returns completed. 

Truliant Federal Credit Union’s Fred J. Sarda Community Pavilion is located at 3200 Truliant Way. The hours of operation for this free tax preparation service are Saturdays, 9:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m., from January 31 through April 11. 

Individuals taking advantage of Truliant’s free service need to bring the following: picture ID, Social Security card or ITIN and the Social Security card of each independent to be claimed, the employer ITIN or Social Security number of child care providers, W-2 form(s) and or 1099(s), last year’s tax return, amount received from the 2008 stimulus package and if applicable, the amount of their 2008 Advanced Child Tax Credit. 


Help for the Kids

Esbee's post this morning about the effects of job losses and potential job losses on families cuts to the core.  The essential question: how do you reassure your kids whose parents have lost their jobs or whose friends' parents have lost their jobs?  It's the third comment on her post that got to me, and I think it's important enough that I'm sharing it below:

We are noticing an increase in students that are becoming homeless due to job cuts and layoffs. It is heart breaking to know that some of my students don't know where they will stay tonight. They don't know what or if they will eat. I do what I can by having snacks in the classroom, but I can only do so much. A pack of "nabs" isn't going to fill an empty belly. 
Please donate to your child's school's fund for these kids. We really need it now more than ever. The social workers have a fund set up just for such kids. Teachers reccomend them anonymously and the social worker offers aid to the family/student. Parent's can also go to the school to ask for help.

According to this recent story in the Winston-Salem Journal 47.7% of the kids in the Winston-Salem Forsyth County School System qualify for free and reduced lunches and that percentage is expected to rise.  Many of us are struggling to make ends meet, but if you have a spare dime please remember the kids.

Getting Ears Lowered at Hallyburton’s Barber Shop

I get my hair cut at one of the last bastions of pure testosterone in the Lewisville-Clemmons area: Hallyburton's Barber Shop on the corner of Styers Ferry and Harper Roads.  I love the place because it features the following:

  • Two barber chairs that are older than me, and likely are older than my grandfather.
  • Two barbers who will rib you all day long but are the nicest guys in the world, Steve Hallyburton and David Sowers.
  • Your choice of two old theater seats or two old church pews to sit on while you wait. 
  • A checker board or a deck of cards to play with if you're so inclined. 
  • An atmosphere of having all the time in the world.  Time slows down.
  • A wood burning stove to keep you warm. 
  • NO fashion magazines, but plenty of hunting and car magazines.  Usually there's a copy of that day's newspaper available too. 
  • Great conversation with David, Steve and whoever else happens to be there. My favorite to date was a rather in-depth discourse on the effects of eating the hottest wings from Ronni's. 

As you can tell I like my barber shops old school. Nothing against the Great Clips of the world, but I like my barbering to come with as little froo-froo as possible.  At Hallyburton's the occassional Mom that ventures in with her son for his far-too-delayed buzz cut is treated with respect (the conversation definitely changes) but with the exception of the most hardy the women appear slightly uncomfortable.  I'm sure they feel much as I do when I have to venture into places where they put stuff on your nails, mud on your face or cucumbers on your eyes.  It's just not their cup of tea.

I hear tales of other local "testosteroney" barber shops but I haven't been to any.  Feel free to share if you know of one.  If you're in the Lewisville-Clemmons area stop in and give Steve and David a hello and tell them I sent you:

Hallyburtons Barber Shop
6290 Styers Ferry Road
Clemmons, NC 27012
(336) 766-9372

Mulhern’s New Digs and Gig

Mike Mulhern, the Winston-Salem Journal's ex-NASCAR reporter, has his new website up and running.  He tells me that this is phase one and that phase two of his site promises more features.  As it is right now he has a Breaking Now/Hot Scoop section, The Pit Bull's Daily Briefing and Mike's Take: NASCAR In Depth.  He's also posting video via YouTube, which is a great idea.  Looks like he's off to a flying running start.

Go get 'em Mike.

WSFCS Spring Break Schedule and Snow Day Make Up Policy

The Winston-Salem Forsyth County Schools made it official today by announcing that the day of school our kids missed due to the 1/2 inch of snow on Tuesday will be made up on March 30, the first day of spring break.  It's no surprise that they are scheduling the make up day for March 30 because they literally printed it in the handbook they distributed at the beginning of the school year, but that doesn't mean the policy is smart.  Here's why I think the policy is dumb:

  • The first two make up days are March 30 and 31 the Monday and Tuesday of spring break, and realistically smack dab in the middle of the break since most people who use it as vacation would start on the previous Friday or Saturday. 
  • The final two scheduled make up days are June 11 and 12, the first two days of summer break which are a Thursday and Friday.  Why not make the first two make up days the summer days since most people won't have vacations scheduled to begin on a Thursday or Friday, while many people will have vacations scheduled for spring break?    
Why not default to the summer break as the first make up days?  For those families with both parents working it's one less day of summer that they have to worry about day care. Sure you could argue that they'd have to pay for day care on March 30, but I think many more people will have scheduled vacation on spring break precisely because they had to find someone to watch the kids that entire week anyway.  Why not take vacation and have some fun with it?

Finally, the school administrators know that people will schedule vacation for spring break even though the make up schedule is communicated at the beginning of the year and every year when people complain I'm sure they say, "We told you so!"  Why put yourself in that position unnecessarily?  Like I said, I think it's a dumb policy for everyone concerned.